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Dear Panel,
I'm a girl and I cheated
on my boyfriend with 2 of his best friends.
I don't know if I still
love him. He said that he would think about what I have
done.
Help me.
– Betsy
Female, age 17, Europe
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What help are you asking for? If you want to know how
to do a bigger screw job on your (former) boyfriend, I
have no better advice.
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Next time, decide FIRST whether you still love your boyfriend
BEFORE you go after his friends.
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What? He has only 2 friends?
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Dear Panel,
I am a 16 year old female.
I am very honest and I believe that you treat a person
how you want to be treated and I can't stand it when
people aren't honest with me. I've lived in the city
my whole life.
My boyfriend, lets call
him Dave, is 19 and has lived on a farm his whole life.
He is very caring and trustful. His last relationship
was ended on very bad terms.
Dave and I have been
dating for almost a month. We met through my brother-in-law.
We started dating the same day we met so it has been
sorta hard for us because we really don't know each
other. He lives 30 minutes from me so we don't get to
see each other a lot but we have learned to deal with
that.
Since we don't know each
other that well its hard to communicate because we don't
really know what each other are like. Well the last
time we were together we were lying in bed talking and
then I went to give him a hickey and he "yelled"
at me. I thought he was just joking around so I said
"but its just a love bite" and then he responded
with "I don't care I don't want one!". I didn't
really think anything of it.
But now I'm starting
to notice that I've never met any of his friends and
when he's at my house and his friends call his cellphone
he doesn't say he's at his girlfriends house he just
tells them he's talking with my brother-in-law. I honestly
don't think he's cheating on me but then I still think
it could happen. I really like him and I have a lot
of fun with him and I don't wanna lose him!!
How do I ask him about
his actions without getting him mad at me?
– Lost for Words
Female, age 16, USA
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Not to be judgmental or anything...
...but why are you lying in bed and giving hickeys to
a guy you don't even know?
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Dear Panel,
I am 20 years old. I've
been sexually involved with over 15 women. There is a
woman that I'm seeing right now that every time I'm with
here before I ever try anything with her I get nervous
and never work my way around to it.
The thing is I care about
her so much I absolutely that I love her I afraid she
going to start thinking I'm weird if I don't try something
soon. I don't ever want to lose her so I know sex always
messes things up because I always have horrible breakups
and we usually never speak to each other again.
If you were me what would
you do?
– RAT
Male, age 20, USA
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Hallelujah!!! A glimmer of maturity!! You should talk
to the girl in the previous question.
You're realizing that relationships work better if you
get to know the other person before you bed them. Explain
this to your girlfriend. Not only won't she think you're
weird, she'll think you're a dream come true!
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Dear Panel,
When a guy flirts with
you by doing such things as smiling at you whenever he
sees you in the hall, looking into your eyes when you
talk to him, gives you sad puppy faces, and playfully
touches your ponytail while passing by, but never really
has a real conversation with you except for online --
What could it mean?
Does he like me? Is he
just being friendly? Or is he just shy?
PLEASE GIVE ME ALL THE
ADVICE YOU CAN!:)
*Thanx*
– Alicia
Female, Age 14, USA
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It's all of the above. Coax him along like he's shy,
inept, and trying to be friendly, and he'll be yours.
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Dear Panel,
I have been going out with
my girlfriend for 11 months. I love her and she means
everything to me.
I just met this other girl
and I sort of like her but I still love my girlfriend
with all my heart.
But I can’t stop thinking
about this new girl.
Help me. I don’t know
what to do.
– Deric S.
Male, age 16, USA
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Stop thinking about that other girl.
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Dear Panel,
I have been dating this
girl for three weeks. Before we started dating and about
a week into dating, she had a boyfriend.
He isn't a problem now,
but after we had sex, which was my first time and her
second, I have begun to question if she is hot enough,
or fun enough to hang out with.
I don't know what to do,
plus I have this uncontrollable urge to say "I Love
You" but I know I don't – I think – because
I have never been in love before. But I don't feel that
what I feel is love.
–
CUFFS, TORMENTED SOUL.
Male,
age 21, USA
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- Don't tell her you love her – you don't.
- Tell her you want to slow down a little bit and get
to know each other more before you get all hot and heavy
with sex. Take the excitement of sex out of the equation
- it's screwing you up (Pun intended).
- Spend less time having sex with her and more time
getting to know her in other ways and then figure out
whether she's someone you want to get closer to, or
farther away from.
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Dear Panel,
I feel a little dumb asking
such a superficial question, but here goes:
My boyfriend has the dreaded
"uni-brow"
and it kind of bothers me. I know this is horrible of
me and I would feel so bad to ask him to pluck it.
Is there a gentle way of
bringing this up, or should I just ignore it?
~Stuff~
Female, age 16, California,
USA
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Tell him that you just bought some way cool clippers
and are dying to try them out.
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Have one of your friends say something to him about it.
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Ignore it. Try staring into his eyes, and not above them.
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Dear Panel,
I like a guy that has a girlfriend.
He says he likes me, and we've messed around, but his
girlfriend is still in the picture.
What should I do??
– Valerie
:)
Female, age
17, Clarksville, Kentucky, USA
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Start taking other pictures.
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Dear Panel,
I don't think anyone in
my school likes me.
I've been told many times
that I'm hot, and that I'm a nice person, so why am I
single?
– Confuzzled
Female, age 13, USA
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You're too young to get married.
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Dear Panel,
I think my boyfriend of
2.5 years is getting ready to propose.
Can you tell me some of
the signs that he may be?
– Star
Female, age 38, USA
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If the words, "will", "you", "marry"
and "me" are in the same sentence then that's
a huge hint.
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Dear Panel,
I'm married, but
I think I love someone else.
I only married my
husband because it felt right at the time and also
because of parental/cultural pressure and left the
man I love because he was of a different culture
– specifically religion.
He's Muslim, and
I'm Hindu. What do I do?
– Confused
Female, age 17
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Don't assume that things would be perfect with
the man you left behind.
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Dear Panel,
I've gotten to know this girl, through a friend
of mine, who attends another school, about an hour
away. When I go up to visit my friend, I usually
make it a point to see her too. She is very attractive,
and I have found that I have a large crush on her.
Unfortunately, when I talk to her online I always
get mixed feelings because we end up talking about
her guy troubles. I'm not exactly sure how she feels,
but its been bugging me for a while, and I can't
get this girl off of my mind. What should I do?
– Bub
Male, age 18, Illinois,
USA
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No problem. The good thing about being online is
you can cut and paste. Cut this out and paste it
into your next message:
I LIKE YOU. FORGET THOSE OTHER GUYS, LET'S GO
ON A DATE.
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Stop talking to her if you're gonna play the wussy
"let's be friends" game.
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that's the last question.
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