Snappy Answers Dec. 5, 2000

Dear Panel,

Where is the g spot?

"g spot"?
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It's right where your girlfriend directs you. Sometimes it can't be found.

Dear Panel,

There is a particular woman that I'd like to get to know better.

For quite a while she wore a ring on the middle finger of her right hand. Now she's wearing it on the ring finger of her right hand.

Not having a clue, does the finger that the ring is worn on have any particular meaning????

male, age 26, USA

Sometimes.
Here's a helpful hint: say to her "That's an interesting ring you're wearing. Does it have any special significance for you?"
I bet you'll get your answer then.

Maybe she's experiencing temporary water retention.

Dear Panel,

I am in love with a girl named Lisa.

She doesn't like me.

Is it still possible that we could be together?

male, age 19, USA

Only if you kidnap her.

Dear Panel, I've been going out with this guy for 3 years. Now we're broke up and he acts like he doesn't like me. What should I do?
	Act like you're broken up and don't care.
	Take the hint. You broke up. He doesn't like you. Move on. Surely you must have friends who like you?!
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Dear Panel,

I'm in love with someone i've never spoken to, only seen.

I'm nuts, I know! But he don't love me!

Help me!

female 14, Europe

It's called a fantasy, sweetie. Enjoy it!

You can build a whole life together in your head, and it won't be ruined by the reality of him.

Whatever you do, don't talk to him. It will only lead to disappointment.

Dear Panel,

I have just begun dating a very close friend.

We have the same group of friends that are together a lot. Now that the 2 of us are dating the rest of the group is pissed at us and alienating us.

Should we continue or not?

female age 23, United States

Your friends are being babies. Keep dating, find some new friends.


Dear Panel, A married man wants to be with me. Should I pursue?
	Just like a batter pursuing strikes.
	No, no, no, no, no. Repeat after me. "Married man CAN'T be with me. He's married."
	No.
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Dear Panel,

i REALLY like this guy i've known for a while at work, and we've been flirting a lot.

I don't know how he really feels about me, but i want him to ask me out.

he's leaving work soon for another job,

You could try telepathy to get him to ask you out.

If that doesn't work, try telephony to ask him out.


Dear Panel, My partner doesn't have much self confidence. He's always afraid to loose me. This makes my life kinda complicated. How can I help him in getting more confident?
	Tell him that you'll stop sleeping with other men for a whole month. Just for him.
	You can't help him get more self-confident. That's his job, and why the term is "self" confidence.
	Stop dating other guys.
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Dear Panel, I love this guy, he knows I love him to deaf. But there's one problem: he don't feel the same way about me. Help me, please. I have no idea what to do!!! female age 13, U.S.A
	At 13, you shouldn't love anyone to deaf.
	Try telling him louder.
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Dear Panel,

My name is Angela. I'm 19 years old.

I have a problem with someone who i loved from years. it's my cousin he is 27 year old.

I've tried to tell him many times that i love him and i want to be with him. He answers me in the same way and reaction,he always says to my friend that he loves her and he kiss her infront of me.

I'm so sad coz he say something than he do something. i want you advice to tell me what to do with him?

I think he's trying to tell you something.

Let me help: Go find someone who's not your cousin.


Dear Panel, I am a 35 y/o male. I am considering marrying a 40 y/o woman. Can you recommend some sites where I can get info on marrying a slightly older woman?
	Just read Charlie's old answers.
	www.relax_itsonly5years.com
	Can't recommend any sites. Can recommend you seriously re-consider whether you should marry this woman if a five year age difference is enough to send you searching out reference material.
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Dear Panel,

I think I am falling for my best friend's brother.

Is this a dangerous situation?

Her brother and I have always been friends but things are different now. I think he also feels the same way.

Should I just forget it because it could ruin the friendship between his sister and I?

It's only dangerous if your friend is falling for her brother, too.

Dear Panel,

The only person I have had a real romantic interest in in the 3 months I've been at college is exactly like my first (and only) girlfriend. She looks like her she talks like her and she seems to have a similar personality.

But my last girlfriend really hurt me. I was depressed for months afterward.

Why would the only person I want to go out with be exactly like someone who hurt me?

I don't know, but it's gotta be better then going out with someone who reminds you of your mother.