| Dear Skittle,
It is a well known fact that when you cheat on someone, it will
catch up to you sooner or later. Well, look at what we have here.
I'm sorry but I just can't find it in my heart to feel sorry for
you. I feel sorry for your boyfriend and your lover's fiancee. Those
are the real victims here. You have stepped in the wrong direction
one too many times.
I'm not saying there aren't a million people in the world that
this happens to too, because there are, it's just that you'd think
they would learn from other people's mistakes.
First of all, you moved in with your boyfriend. Sometimes that
isn't such a bad thing. But in your case it opened your eyes to
see that maybe you aren't meant to be. Here's where the first mistake
was made.
You Should Have Ended It With Your Boyfriend
What you SHOULD have done is called it off right there. You shouldn't
have thought, OH WELL, I'll just go SLEEP AROUND. And if your "lover"
is so unhappy with his bride-to-be he should have called that off
long before you and him got together. But instead you chose the
hard way. Now you are in a mess.
I'm afraid there is no way this is going to end without someone
being hurt. If you run away with this guy, someone will get hurt.
If you fess up to your responsibilities, someone will get hurt.
Move Out
Nothing good comes out of cheating. Nothing. So my advice to you
is simply this: tell your boyfriend what has been going on, make
your "lover" do the same with his fiancee, move out, and
then if you still wanna be with this other guy you actually can
without saying it's "on the side."
Lastly, act your age. You know, when you're 18 you're supposed
to be a legal adult. Well, I believe the legal part.
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