Dear Big Brother,

First off, you are only 25. Believe me there is no rush to be in a "serious" relationship. Rushing into a relationship just to say that you are in one only
makes your life worse in the long run. (Believe me, I'm living proof)

If you are in a meaningful friendship with a woman, you are getting to know her better than most men ever bother to. There are a lot of women out there who will appreciate that in a guy. I wouldn't be surprised if one of those friendships blossoms into something stronger one of these days.

You May Only Have One True Love

You might just be one of the lucky fellas who only has the one true love. Nothing wrong with that! I've noticed the guys I always felt attracted to are a lot more casual about flirting with me. You can't stop a girl from feeling like you are her brother, but you can flirt more.

You need to concentrate less on the 'with someone' part and start concentrating on why you always pick the girls in a relationship. Why not go out with someone you normally wouldn't? Nothing saying you have to marry her! Just have a good time with her, hey, it might even ignite a spark of jealousy in one of your friends and wake them up to what a great guy they are letting get away.

Start Asking People Out

My main advice is to start dating. Especially some of the girls you don't consider right, you might be surprised at what you find!

He should be picky. He just shouldn't be a friend to every girl he meets.

Last but definitely NOT least stop being so picky, isn't that why you always end up the brother and not the lover?

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