Dear Mosobie,

Never, never, do something with someone just because you want them to stay with you.

You are young, and have many more relationships ahead of you. He may always get what he wants, but you don't have to give yourself to him.

Sex Is Sacred

Sex is sacred, and it shouldn't be given away in a puppy love relationship that might not last more than a month.

Wait

You are going to go through life, one day find someone wonderful, and if you give it up this soon, you'll regret it then. I promise, even if you love this guy, if you care for him deeply...wait. If he cares as much, he'll understand, he'll wait.

You need to find someone who will respect you, and wait for you. Besides, you don't want someone who always makes you feel that if they aren't happy they'll leave you.

It Will Only Hurt You

Don't give someone an opportunity to take you to that low level. You'll get hurt more than if you and he where to just break up. You'll lose a part of your soul, something you can't ever get back. Never let someone control something you can't fix about yourself.

Take it upon yourself to decide, without another persons influence on the situation. You need to wait. You need time to grow, to understand what sex is about. What love is about. What waiting is about.

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