Dear Panel,
I am a very sarcastic, funny, beautiful
and intelligent 20-year-old college sophomore. I am
a very independent person, and very stubborn, yet in
relationships I turn to mush.
He's A Great Person
My boyfriend is a 22-year-old college
senior and just about perfect. He's funny, sweet, caring,
and has this incredible ability to calm me down when
I get angry. Physically he's lacking, but I'm at the
point where every time I look at him I think he's sexier
than before.
Our Meeting Was A Drunken Frat Hook Up
I feel lame writing this but It's a concern
of mine. I met my boyfriend one random night, in the
worst "that will never turn into a relationship
way" ie. drunken frat hookup. I wanted it to stay
as that, I wasn't interested in him for awhile. He was
way too nice, like he was kind of a pussy about stuff,
and I didn't feel any challenge, he would do ANYTHING
for me.
He Won Me Over
Long story short, he showed his true colors,
and won me over. His sense of humor is disgusting, and
crude, and sarcastic, as is mine, but when it comes
down to it he loves to cuddle and use baby voices with
me.
Our Relationship Is Great
We've been together for a year and we
have a great time together. We hang out a lot together,
like with his friends, and I've been accepted as "the
only cool girlfriend". We're both form California
and we go to school in New York. He's staying an extra
year for grad school, mostly for me next year.
Being This In Love Makes Me Insecure
Here's the thing, I really want to be
with him forever. I have so many insecurities though.
Like I feel like something is going to jinx the whole
thing. Part of me feels too young to feel this in love.
I just don't want to mess it up. Like I feel like he
could loose interest, or maybe he'll begin to think
my assertive ways are too domineering.
Can boys really stay with one person forever?
I mean is it possible to fall in love and live happily
ever after, even if I'm so young?
Female, age 20, California
Bob,
Jimmy,
KP,
Raven,
and Dakota
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