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Dear DP,
What is with people that want to escape the realities of their
lives by entering a fantasy life that will just end up being a different
real life?
You're In A Fantasy Land
It's the whole premise of Temptation Island. Of COURSE the other
person looks wonderful on a resort with no responsibilities and
around the clock pampering - because you aren't worried about money
troubles, history, how to discipline the kids, how to deal with
relatives you don't like, etc.
Your sister-in-law might be a better person for you in the long
run, but not until you are able to separate fantasy from reality.
Really Evaluate Your Current Relationship
What is really good in your current relationship? What are the
deal breakers that just aren't going to get better? What would be
your ideal relationship in the real world?
Sort this stuff out before you make any decisions. Your choices
need to be grounded in reality, not fantasy.
– Judith
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