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Dear Girl on Rebound,
Whether or not you feel your lie wasn't about something important
to the relationship, it's pretty clear that it was important to
your ex-boyfriend.
Why DIDN'T You Tell Us What Your Lie Was About?
Why didn't you tell us what the lie was about? I'm suspicious that
you've withheld that information for a reason. You're afraid that
we might think the lie was a lot more significant than you're letting
on.
You Don't Want A Friendship, You Want Him Back
The bottom line is that whether you think it was for a good reason
or not, you've lost his trust. You say you're now offering him your
friendship, but you need to be honest with yourself and with him.
You're hoping that the two of you will get back together.
He Doesn't Want You Back
Judging by his reaction, that's not likely. It seems that you two
aren't right for each other. And while it's nice of you to want
to remain on friendly terms
with him, things don't always work out that way.
Move On
It's time to chalk this one up as a learning experience, and move
on with your life.
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