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Dear Susie,
First of all. We are panelists of non-experts. So take it easy
on the vocab next time.
Well let me be blunt. I am going to quote you. "He has gotten
all that he wanted out of this correspondence and is now done."
He Gave You Obvious Signs
That is basically it. Let go of the long distance fairy tale. Look
at the obvious signs that he gave you. He was commenting on how
he didn't like your "girlfriend" type behavior. Plus,
he distanced himself emotionally when he left. He didn't write you.
And when he responded he still was a jerk.
Guys Are Pigs
You were used, bottom line. Guys are pigs, didn't you know that?
A lot of guys are more smooth about it and would make this little
experience more passionate with the roses
and romantic one-liners, and compliments and all of that shit. All
that, just to get some ass.
It is a tough reality. Not saying Mr. Almost Right isn't out there,
but this guy sure the hell isn't. Fagetaboutit. This
what we in Jersey that watch The Sopranos would say.
 Stop
the Fairy Tale Delusion
You're making this more than it is because of the writing and distance
and fairy tail delusion. If this guy lived close to you and you
dated him, it wouldn't work out. Move on. Keep your guard and your
pants up.
You Can Do Better
You sound very intelligent so next time look a little bit closer
for the obvious signs. You can do a lot better. Good luck sister
West Coast!
– Jimmy
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