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Dear Spinster,
It's OK To Be Alone If You're Happy
It is quite all right to be alone (not in a relationship) for the
rest of your life, as long as you are happy with who YOU are, and
accept those facts to the best of your ability.
Someone in your life needs to complement your life, not take from
it.
Don't Meet Men Until You Fix Yourself
I could tell you to go to singles groups or church groups to find
the right "him", but chances are that right now he is
not present. I was told that my next wife was out there living under
a bridge and waiting for the right time to sober up so I could meet
her.
They weren't to far from wrong. I had to fix me first, which is
what I suggest to you.
Your intro says "dried up old spinster." A little bit
of self pity maybe? Try going to adult groups while working on fixing
you and just try to make friends. This is to solve the physical
lonely part of life.
Maybe He's in Harrisburg
I assure you that there is a "lock for every key", and
he is out there somwhere, maybe over in Harrisburg making his true
stake in life before coming to Philly to find you. Stop "looking"
and only good will come from it – when, I can't say –
but it will come eventually.
– Survivor
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