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Dear Sarah,
Find a Simpler Relationship
Quite frankly, I would follow your friends advice. Get into a simpler
relationship. PLEASE.
He's Behaving in a Healthy Manner
What your boyfriend is doing does not mean he is a pedophile.
It doesn't mean he isn't either. He is actually behaving in a very
healthy manner.
Obviously he has fantasies about schoolgirl types. (Not uncommon)
He is choosing to roleplay as opposed to seeking out an underage
girl. If he went to therapy, this is more than likely what a therapist
would advise him to do: Explore his fantasies in a healthy manner.
Move On If You're Not Comfortable with It
However, you are not comfortable with it. You don't have to deal
with it. So move on.
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I agree. He needs to find someone who shares
his fantasies.
She should not feel obliged to participate
in anything that makes her uncomfortable.
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