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Dear Confused,
"Opposites attract" is a law of nature, and while it
does not always apply to human nature, it usually does, and that
is how it is.
Sameness Is Boring
I have never personally married, gone out with or had a relationship
with anyone who was "just like me". I mean how boring
can you get?
If you were with a person that liked the same things all the time
you would never need to find things to compromise about, look at
her/his side and try to appreciate and enjoy things different, and
that to me would be a relationship made in hell.
Change Is Necessary
Change is a great factor in life and is necessary in a relationship
that is to be ongoing, maybe for many years.
Maybe It's a Woman Thing
She is just not attracted to you, and maybe it's a woman thing,
which is something you or I will never know the answer too. Understanding
women is like being a layman and trying to understand The Theory
of Relativity, you can get the basics, but full understanding, not
possible.
You Can't Decide for Her
She will be attracted to who she wants, and unless you and she
discuss the matter in depth, it is none of your business, and besides,
who the heck are you to decide for her who she is compatible with?
She is just not there for you, except as a friend.
Your feelings are your feelings, apparently not hers.
– Survivor
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