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Oh Tony, Tony, Tony.

If this is your only problem at 21, you're gonna have a heart attack by the time your're 25. Believe it or not, this can be fixed.

Wrong! He seems oblivious to his worst trait: He's a control freak!

Okay – so you listed all your good traits. And you know all your bad ones. But as you said so yourself, NOBODY'S PERFECT. And if everyone continually fixated on the least attractive traits – the world would just fall apart.

Take a Chance

You know what separated the world's great from the ordinary? THEY TOOK A CHANCE. They risked everything just so they knew that at least they tried. Now, I am going to tell you the same thing.

Take It One Stepat a Time

SUCK IT UP and get on with it. Forget about what happens when you two get together. You have to actually talk to her first. Don't worry about things until they happen. Stop listening to what everyone else says. If she really does like you – wouldn't you want to find that out for yourself?!? What's the worst that can happen?!? She might completely ignore you – but if she's as nice as you say she is, then what do you have to worry about?!?

Use a Casual Approach

If you're worried about an approach, than just try something simple. The next time you see her, look at what she's doing. If she's reading a book, ask her about it. If she's watching TV, ask her about the show. Basically, pick-up lines are a thing of the past. The more casual the approach, the easier it is to get a response.

You'll Regret Not Trying

If you want something, do something about it. If you don't at least try, you'll regret it the moment you see her with a guy who wasn't too shy to talk to her.

She'll Be Nervous, Too

If she really does like you, she'll be just as nervous to talk to you. But you have to make yourself visible to her. She will respect you more.

Relationships are not hard to start – just hard to keep. Good luck Tony.

Hope I've helped,
– Mel

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