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Dear Talon,
She Wants Someone Who Doesn't Intimidate Her
She probably felt more comfortable with you before you started
making the moves. Sometimes people look for people that don't know
much and aren't very sexually active so they won't feel intimidated.
When you started getting the hang of things she probably worried
that you would proceed and want to go farther.
Give Her TIme To Feel Safe
She is just backing off until she feels safe again. Give her time
to feel like she is the leader of the romance and she will come
around. Don't press anything.
Give Her a Promise Ring
Have you tried a promise ring? Not an engagement ring. Just give
her a normal ring as a symbol of your dating relationship and as
a promise that you won't do anything she doesn't want to do until
after you are married. That would probably make her feel a lot better,
and safer.
Speak Up
But you still need to talk to her about her feelings and YOUR feelings.
You need to tell her your thoughts too. Don't just listen, speak
up. Be understanding and she will too. You can't have a healthy
relationship without communication and lots of love.
– Shyann
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