Reader Gonganite Responds:
It is absolutely true, that he will look at you differently.
This is not necessarily a bad thing, but it most definitely
can be, depending on the guy.
I'm a Virgin
I have evaluated and reevaluated my view on this, and
though my opinion may seem weak because I am still a virgin,
I am well aware of these matters.
When my lover and I invest in a relationship so deeply
as this, I will most definitely see her differently. I have
faith that I will see her in the highest of respect and
love. If my judgment of character is good, then she will
become my world.
But beware, this is not the nature of most males, my nature
was developed by my upbringing and it is improbable that
many men have grown up in a family as loving and respectful
towards the female form as mine.
Never Settle for a Mediocre Man
To all the women: never settle for a mediocre man just
because you can't find any better, that is a recipe for
disaster.
When I find the woman I am going to spend the rest of
my life with, sex will not close the doors on the growth
of our relationship, if it will change the relationship
at all, it will stoke the fire of passion and love, and
that is where I expect to find true and perfect happiness,
holding and being held by the woman I love.
Gonganite
Male
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