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What are the implications of losing my virginity?

Melanee said:

...a guy will look at you differently after he's been with you in such an intimate way...

Reader Gonganite Responds:

It is absolutely true, that he will look at you differently.

This is not necessarily a bad thing, but it most definitely can be, depending on the guy.

I'm a Virgin

I have evaluated and reevaluated my view on this, and though my opinion may seem weak because I am still a virgin, I am well aware of these matters.

When my lover and I invest in a relationship so deeply as this, I will most definitely see her differently. I have faith that I will see her in the highest of respect and love. If my judgment of character is good, then she will become my world.

But beware, this is not the nature of most males, my nature was developed by my upbringing and it is improbable that many men have grown up in a family as loving and respectful towards the female form as mine.

Never Settle for a Mediocre Man

To all the women: never settle for a mediocre man just because you can't find any better, that is a recipe for disaster.

When I find the woman I am going to spend the rest of my life with, sex will not close the doors on the growth of our relationship, if it will change the relationship at all, it will stoke the fire of passion and love, and that is where I expect to find true and perfect happiness, holding and being held by the woman I love.

Gonganite

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