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Nikki,
Hey girl. I guess my
advice to your question would be to just talk to him.
I know where your coming
from, though. This one guy I met online decided to meet up w/ me
and so we did. We ended up messing around a lot... which I must
say I really enjoyed. I came to liking him a lot. So then I asked
him if he'd maybe like to hook up. He said soon I'd get my chance
to be w/ him.
We never did hook up
and since then I've messed around more with him and regretted it
because I still really like him a lot. But he said he had no trust
in girls so it wouldn't be right, and he had a g/f at the time.
I then learned I should just stay away from him cuz otherwise I'd
end up getting hurt even more. I know that if I didn't talk to him
I probably would have kept going farther w/ him.
As for him always flirting
w/ you, he's just a typical guy... or could it be he does like you?
Does he flirt with every other girl or just you? Does he do crazy
things for you? You should think about these questions and see how
the answers turn out.
 Let
Him Know How You Feel
If you're like me and
really shy, just have a friend go up and talk to him. I'm pretty
sure from some of the same experiences with guys, he'll tell them
the truth. Or you could always write him a letter explaining how
you feel.
But if you are the risky
type then you should just go up and ask him if he would like to
do something together soon, because you can also think of it as
you can't lose what you never had ("Hey I was thinking maybe if
you weren't busy this weekend we could go to a movie or something?")
Well in whatever you
choose to do, good luck. I hope this information helped in some
way.
Oh and I like your name.
-- Nikki
=)
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