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You just answered your
own question.
"I just played along
with it, but inside I felt a little uncomfortable."
You
Don't Sound Like You're Ready
These are not the words
of someone who is ready to make love. I use love because that is
what it is based on along with trust. You seem to have love and
trust for your boyfriend but if you seem uncomfortable in any way,
in just talking about or getting intimate with him, that is a sign
that you are not just yet ready for this plunge.
Having sex with someone
for the first time, as you already know, is an act that can never
be taken back or repeated. Your first time should come naturally
to you, you won't have to think twice about it.
I
Waited 2 Years with My Boyfriend
I waited for about 2
years before I gave myself to my boyfriend. When we first started
dating I was so adamant about staying a virgin until marriage. I
was, as you, uncomfortable with the conversation of it, but slowly
I came to realize this is the person I love and will love for the
rest of my life. It wasn't planned, I had no intentions of making
that the "big" day. It really just happened, naturally.
Making sure he is the
one for you is very important and if you're feeling uncomfortable
with the thought of it now then if you do have sex it might turn
into regret later.
Take your time!
– Jessica
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