Dear Panel,

I'm a guy who's been married for almost eight years (quite happy!)

But I'm in love with her younger sister ( she's nice and pretty!) I'm sure she likes me too for the same reason....but she has a boyfriend with whom she has a lot of troubles....

I'd like to give her a book titled: Men are from mars, women are from Venus but I'd really like to tell her about my feelings straight. My wife knows about my feelings for her. What am I supposed to do?!

– Andy