Dear Panel,

There is definitely chemistry between a gentleman caller and myself. We have gone out a few times. The last time that he and I were together got pretty hot and heavy, but then I had to put a stop to it. Too soon to go there. Now,I am afraid he won't call again. I really believe that we are soul mates and I want to be the one who at at 60 is standing by his side and holding his hand what can I do, if anything?

Trying to be patient