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Dear Jay,
WOW, sounds like you've had a fun summer, or not really!!
Casual Sex Is Out
First off, sex is not something to mess with these days! I don't
care who slept with however many girls, with all those diseases
out there and the chance of pregnancy, sex isn't a casual thing,
its not the 60's and 70's, this is 2002!!
Now, if you've been playing all these girls all summer you can't
just wake up one morning and expect your reputation to change!!
It's gonna take time!!
Stop Playing
My advice, don't go back to being a manwhore, especially if you
want a serious relationship! You don't wanna be known as that asshole
who played all those girls once your outta school, cuz that title
will most likely come back to bite you in the butt!
You'll Have To Prove You Changed
It's just going to take some time for girls to see you in their
eyes differently!! You're going to have to prove to everyone that
you've changed! It's going to take a while but don't give up!
You could probably score some "brownie points" if maybe
you became friends with some girls,and not sleep with them!! And
then slowly move from there. Eventually you will be able to gain
the trust of some lucky girl!
Allana
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