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Lucky being a chick ...
I think guys are much easier to please.
Sex?
A little extra sexual
prowess seemed to work for me ... okay that was only a joke.
Writing
I generally tend to write.
For Jake I would write long letters about how my life had changed
since I met him, and how complete I felt because of him. The important
thing to remember if you choose to write is that most people are
pretty keen to the smell of bullshit. If you don't feel it, don't
say it.
Something
Out of the Ordinary
The other thing I recommend
is doing something out of the ordinary for your guy. If that means
dragging him to a remote beach or other secluded location, good,
or if it means renting his favorite action movie that you can't
stand, do it ... hopefully his plans for the two of you will pre-empt
you actually having to sit through another bad Schwarzenegger movie,
but he'll appreciate the gesture.
Secrets
San Diego Spots
Since I am from San Diego,
I will recommend a couple of my personal favorite semiprivate spots
... since I won't be there this year, you can take them.
My all time favorite
place to take somebody, especially if they were not from San Diego,
is the Spruce Street Bridge between Hillcrest and Downtown, off
2nd. Take a blanket, smuggle a bottle of wine, and watch the planes
fly in. Hopefully the stoned kids will leave you alone and not insist
on rocking the bridge too much.
My favorite beach is
Windansea. Because of the tidal changes, this beach never looks
the same twice. Sometimes the rocks are exposed, sometimes it is
sandy. It is almost always vacant and there are spotlights on the
water which are nice. Make sure you make arrangements so you do
not have to use the one outhouse located there. Believe me ... hold
it!!
Okay, enough Alicia secrets
for you. Final thoughts: be sincere and don't think of a plan as
a means to an end but an end in itself. The whole point is to let
them (whether husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/friend/lover) know
that somebody cares about them.
– Alicia
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