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There's a boy(T.) at school that likes me very much, and now I also like him very much. We call each other almost every day. But the problem is that T.'s got a lot of problems at home. That's why he don't always have time for me. T. says I have to be patient with him. But we still aren't a couple yet, and I'm getting a little tierd, I'm waiting more than 2 months; T. says then that I have to wait for him.

He comes now almost not more to school because of all his problems at home. I know that he loves me very much, and I him. But yesterday we went on a trip with school and I spent the whole day with a boy(D.) from my year.

We've got a lot of fun, I realy had a great time!! In the bus, I was sitting next to him, and we fell a sleep, and I lay on him, he embrased me and laid his head against mine. Most people in school think that we are a couple now, because of what they saw in the bus. The problem is now that I am also falling in love with him. Now I don't know anymore who to chose. I don't date with none of them; from T. I'm very sure he loves me, and from D., I think so. But I love them

BOTH!!! Who do I have to choose???!!!

Ikke

Lefty Answers:

Dear Ikke,

Well, the good news Ikke, is that if you can fall in love with someone by being with them for one day on a school trip, then you probably won't have to wait too long between lovers. Forget the dating stage, zoom right by the boyfriend phase---you're in there.

There are all

Because that would cause anxiety and jealousy.

kinds of stuff you might want to think a little more about. Or at least I would think a little more about. Why are you so desperate to be a couple when you're only 16? Why can't you date more than 1 person? If T. cannot be with you as much as you'd like because of troubles at his home, why can't you be friends with him and be supportive of him, but still not put your life on hold? Why do you care so much about what others think of your relationship?

Listen, you should be supportive of T., especially if you like him, but you shouldn't put your life on hold. Go out and make friends, but just because you get along with one person for one day is no reason to immediately plan your life with him. Get to know people, go on dates, have some fun, and you'll meet someone who can be in a mature relationship with you and is at the right time of his life to have that relationship with you. Oh, and don't go on school camping trips if it affects you the same way as the girl who really gets along with boys on those trips.

Lefty

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