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Dear PIE,
What's Wrong with Being a Bimbo?
What is wrong with being a bimbo wanting to get laid? If that is
the category you now belong to for "giving it up", isn't he in the
same category? And maybe he's not calling because he's not
the catch you thought he was.
This whole backward idea that sleeping around is okay for a man
but wrong for women is ridiculous.
And regrets? Who has time for regret? Look, if this guy is
such a great guy he'll come back around, but don't wait for him
in desperation. If it turns out that you putting out really
did chase him away, remember the next time you meet a hottie in
a bar that under no circumstances do you invite him over and give
it up.
And honestly, you're not some sorry cliché for hooking up
at a bar.
If you knew how many letters we get from guys wanting to meet women
for serious relationships and vice-versa, you would think even the
bars would be full of nice people making positive connections.
But people go out, dress in clothes that they are not completely
comfortable in, wear more makeup or cologne than anybody could possibly
be comfortable in, and they talk like they are from some uptight
Frasier episode.
Don't let this one time get you down. Some bars can
actually provide the right atmosphere to make a good connection.
And though the odds aren't in your favor, if your judgment is, you'll
come out okay.
– Alicia
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