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I am 16 years old, but I have been in my share of horrible
relationships. My friends tell me that I'm too trusting, which
might explain why I fall for the guys who look like they are
sensitive. I say "look like" because I learned very
quickly that most high-school guys are creeps. And most college
guys only want sex from us younger girls.
I have been in a relationship with a guy who I swear is a
future wife beater, a male whore, and someone who thought
that I was his little beck-and-call chick. So where are we
trusting, sensitive girls to turn?
I HAVE had one very happy relationship, however. It is my
current one, and my boyfriend is 18. We have only been together
for 2 months, but it has been very strong so far and I hope
it continues to be!
My philosophy on relationships is that you have to love to
be loved. What I mean by that is that you can't be afraid
of letting yourself fall for someone. How else will you become
a happy, stable person? If anyone should be bitter about relationships,
it should be me and I'm not even close to the end of my "roller
coaster of love"! But yet I haven't become bitter, I've
become smarter.
I am quite a bit younger than most of them, and I feel like
some of your teenage visitors might be able to relate to my
advice better than the advice of someone substantially older
than they are. I would also be thrilled to become a guest
contributor if you don't have room for me on the panel. Anything
to give advice and help as many people as possible!
Karmela
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